Yet while we've perfected the art of hosting, we've paid surprisingly little attention to the equally important art of being a good guest. Don’t arrive without confirming that you will arrive and don’t leave it in the air. Mind your table mannersGood table manners aren't about pretension; they're about ensuring everyone at the table is comfortable. "Remember that at the dinner table you eat from the left and drink from the right. Good dinner guests aren't remembered because they brought the best gift or told the funniest stories.