To eat at Spur or not to eat at Spur, that seems to be the question. Talking about slaps in the face, let’s turn our attention to the man in the video. And in another case, the woman opened a common assault case against him after he allegedly hit her at their home. They are tired of being used as scapegoats and being blamed for everything and they are tired of double standards,” Roets said. I think the only person who was close to being used as the punching bag here was the woman.