Why it maximizes pleasure for both partners: People with penises love it because they can penetrate very deeply in this position. Why it maximizes pleasure for both partners: When a person with a vagina is on top, they have total control over their orgasm. 3 Doggy Style With A Vibrator How to do it: Get into doggy style position, then grab a vibrator to stimulate the clitoris. Why it maximizes pleasure for both partners: Similar to traditional cowgirl, reverse cowgirl is one of the best sex positions for clitoral orgasm. Why it maximizes pleasure for both partners: Rear vaginal penetration is always a winner for both partners.