Let me guess: he’s perfect for you in every way, but he doesn’t want to commit to a relationship. Next, you’re going to need to talk to him about how you’re feeling and let him know what you need from him. The love of your life is not the guy who is on the fence about whether he wants to be with you or not. I know you’ve projected a lot of your romantic hopes and dreams onto him, and your imagination comes alive as you think about all your possible futures together. The guy who is sporadic with communication and leaves you feeling confused is not the love of your life.