Hundreds of parents and children in U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) custody are expected to face this kind of "binary choice" soon. One of them would be staying in detention with your children, meaning staying with your son in detention until your case is done. The other option is to let your son leave, so another family member can receive him. I feel like they should understand that it is a long time, that children don't deserve to be going through this. But there is also another judge who authorized the release of the children and said the children don't have to be detained.