Story about me when I was younger, which illustrates how I had the appearance of discipline without a solid grasp of the “why” Discussion on the introspection—the search for the “why”—that made me understand the reason I was behaving in that bad way (where alcohol was the facilitator and enabler of certain experiences). In short: be patient, take it slow, do not assume that you are special, do not talk big, have a sense of purpose that is consistent with your actuality, put yourself to the test in order to learn who you are (what you can and cannot do).