When we think about things like personality, extroversion, and introversion, or even other parts of individual differences in the ways that our brains work – if you’re on the autism spectrum, if you have ADHD, all of it matters in terms of who you are and how your brain works, but ultimately, what really matters is how are you feeling when you’re talking to other people, and how are those things influencing your behaviors, your little micro-decisions that you make at every moment of every conversation?