For so many gay and bi people there are hardly any LGBT+ narratives on mainstream TV programming, particularly for kids or teens – so it can be much harder to come to terms with, or recognise your feelings and their validity when there’s nothing to compare it to. A recent discussion on Reddit revealed some of the signs guys realised they were gay and we can’t 100 relate. I knew I was 100% gay when I made out with a guy for the first time.