They need to attend to their predator, not ignore them. A person living a fulfilled life on their own terms is more difficult to prey upon than a person seeking something the predator can pretend to fill." He is playing on their needs for acceptance and affection, the things that they seek, and he uses that for leverage." (Category 3)"They seem to seek out victims with high emotional responses which they consider as major weaknesses and therefore more vulnerable to their manipulations." (Category 4ii)The data indicate great attention is often directed towards minimising exposure.