Whether you're having sex or just sitting there face-to-face, heart-to-heart, the goal is to be fully seen, grounded, and, yeah, probably a little turned on. If you don't have a partner or don't feel like recording your coupled-up sex, how about some solo clips? Resist having sex with your partner for a week, all the while the both of you tease and try to turn each other on. Have your partner try a sex toy by themselves, then report back to you. To get started, try having sex as many times as you can during the weekend or try a new position each day for a week.