But when they find out I'm a virgin, they look at it as if it's some sort of game. As a virgin, dating is extremely hard. Like everyone else, I struggle to find connections in real life, so I have to resort to dating apps . But when I told him around three weeks into dating that I was a virgin, he thought I was just being funny. For now, it's not that I'm necessarily waiting for marriage — but if it happens that way, I'm not against it.