I just had no idea playing into his dominance would involve a crash course in dirty talk too. Eventually, talking dirty became less and less awkward, and it started to become something I truly enjoyed. Looking back, it seems as if he knew my ability to talk dirty was always there, but it just needed some major unearthing to release it. Once I was able to harness my ability to talk dirty in bed, I never looked back. Touching and physical sensations are important for my sex life, but dirty talk has made my orgasms feel more complete.