Mariama Bah ©Gwent PoliceNext day, we made small talk as we wandered around the shops looking for the best meat and spices. It was just starting to sizzle when Mariama walked in. While we had our tug-of-war, I tried to keep an eye on the pan of boiling hot oil. I assumed she was going to move it, but suddenly she picked it up and threw the oil over me. ‘You walked over to the cooker and picked up the pan of hot oil on the hob and flung it at her.