More guest starring gigs followed before Patricia finally became a household name in 1996 as Debra on Everybody Loves Raymond. Looking back on her journey, Patricia says she now accepts life’s joys and hardships with a renewed sense of grace. “The reason Everybody Loves Raymond worked was because we were all living it at home. The cast of ‘Everybody Loves Raymond’ CBS via Getty ImagesFaith as foundation“My faith was always there,” she shares. Why Patricia loves it: It’s 35 calories and 4 grams of sugar per glass—and it maintains the ritual of wine without alcohol.