From my personal experience as well as discussions with aging experts, here’s what I suggest adult children talk with their parents about and how to help them. Our parents don’t want to be a burden, and it may seem like everything is fine, but appearances can be deceiving. If the logistics are hard for your parents or they’re paying bills late, ask them about setting up autopay. If money is tight, help your parents get in touch with organizations such as local senior services or departments on aging. And if your parents don’t have the resources to pay for an attorney, perhaps you can offer paying for them as a gift.”