My son, who is in his 20s, had a job once but quit it, and now he lives as a recluse. He no longer speaks to anyone in our family, and there are no signs that he’s looking for a job. She has been trying to get him to attend seminars for shut-ins and thinking about getting him a part-time job. Leaving him alone is not the same as accepting his situation and leaving it to him to handle. Why not try to sit down and talk with your son as an adult again and be someone he can feel comfortable talking to?