In other words, they don’t know that even if the shoe fits, they don’t have to wear it. Relatedly, with some of my work I’ve inadvertently tested the bounds of what one can and can’t put in writing these days. Then there was the column I wrote as my favorite special date, April 1st, was approaching. I once wrote a column about the All About Me Game, my tongue-in-cheek look at the ease of keeping conversational narcissists thus engaged. Phil Goldstein is in his sixth year writing Tales from Timnath for North Forty News.