Image: @lundi_thelifecoachSource: TikTokA South African life coach sparked a lively debate online after sharing the personal rules she and her husband follow, which many couples would consider unusual. Lundi, who goes by @lundi_thelifecoach on TikTok, posted the video on 11 August 2026, and it quickly resonated with viewers across the country. The rules behind their marriageAccording to Lundi, she and her husband give each other complete personal freedom. Watch Lundi break down her marriage rules in the TikTok video here. Mzansi reacts to the marriage approachThe video opened a wider conversation about what a healthy marriage looks like, and South Africans had plenty to say:User @Tumza said:"This sounds very healthy 💯."