Teen drowns at Rockaway Beach after mom says he urged lifeguards to save friendAnthony Carlo spoke to the victim's mom, who is clinging to the few belongings he left behind. Anthony Carlo spoke to the victim's mom, who is clinging to the few belongings he left behind. Anthony Carlo spoke to the victim's mom, who is clinging to the few belongings he left behind. Anthony Carlo spoke to the victim's mom, who is clinging to the few belongings he left behind. As they moved in to help, Thompson said her son urged them to save his friend first.