Vanessa Feltz wrote in The Mail on Sunday’s YOU magazine this week that ‘it’s a big fat bore being “mummy” to a hulking great adult’. Apparently referring to her ex-fiance Ben Ofoedu, she claimed that the former pop star ten years her junior ‘cheated so ferociously I had to throw him out’. Now, Ben has hit back, claiming that the distinguished broadcaster, 64, ‘abused’ him during their long relationship. ‘She’s incredibly controlling, incredibly domineering, and when you go to Feltz Towers, all that matters is Vanessa,’ Ben claims. Ben has now found love with beauty entrepreneur Vanessa Brown, whom he affectionately calls ‘Vanessa 2.0’.