College is one of the few phases in life that not only allows you to be selfish but asks you for it. You need to be kind to yourself, too, especially when dealing with all of the massive changes that come with college. I want to be challenged every day of my life but especially during my college years. College is a lot of things, but it’s almost never peaceful. Embrace the chaos, find friendships that recharge you and take care of yourself, no matter how selfish you might feel it is.