Watch : Oprah Winfrey Jokingly Reveals One "Bad" Career MistakeWhile you can get a car and you can get a car, not everybody can get a love like the one Oprah Winfrey has with Stedman Graham. Though their relationship isn’t the kind where they’re jumping on couches professing their feelings for each other (we'll never forget, Tom Cruise). In fact, Winfrey and Graham have kept much of their romance private throughout their 40 years together. The media mogul and the Identity Leadership author recently made a rare public appearance together—their first joint sighting in seven years. The last time the couple was photographed together was in 2019, when they attended the Tyler Perry Studios grand opening gala in Atlanta.