Snider says an unidentified person who appears to message her at 8:48 a.m. asking about the timing of her earliest appointment is Lindsey Graham. “Lindsey Graham liked dick.” I first met Senator Lindsey Graham in June 2015. Survival sex work would just be nixed from my life, and no one would take me seriously. Sean Harding was a gay porn star — and for the most part, Lindsey Graham really loved being with gay men.