People online love calling out “toxic norms.” There’s a list online of “absurd standards” that have become “normal” in society, even though they’re “very, very, very messed up.” One of the entries is: Making someone feel bad for NOT liking pumpkin spice. “Not everyone likes the pumpkin spice smell or pumpkin spice-flavored foods. A few other new “toxic norms” from the list are:1.