She calls it the myth of “marriages being made in heaven,” a seductive idea that quietly convinces couples they don’t have to do much beyond finding the right person. Sex, she said, has become “the ‘fast food’ of romantic relationships, a warped view of sex as the shortcut to intimacy.” Single life can be beautiful. “Without an authentic community that will support and nurture strong marriages and families, our witness may be weak,” Quek said. “The fear of sharing our vulnerability often leaves couples and families with no ‘safe room’ to work through their struggles.”