Below we spoke to welders, home builders and lawyers – all of whom say they never thought the way they look would influence their work this much. Along with being a lawyer, I’m trying to grow as a thought leader for women in the divorce space – that means more forward-facing, PR-type things. Now, I work from home, so, even though I am still visible on TikTok a lot, I find I spend a lot less. Which is weird, because all I’m trying to do is ask if they want some wine or a cocktail. And I don’t think I’m even seriously investing that much in my appearance.