But it is judgment that has led Jalland to Thursby’s garden, not far from his own home in the Cambridgeshire town of March. His reaction was instinctive: “Give me the address and I’m going to go down there and cut the grass.” “I can’t decide whether multiple sclerosis is worse than mental health, or mental health worse than being in a wheelchair … I’m going to look at it as the bigger picture. In the UK, the mental health charity Mind is available on 0300 123 3393. In the US, call or text Mental Health America at 988 or chat 988lifeline.org.