A QUIRKY, independent 38-year-old man believes he is too focused on his job and his happiness to give in to the pressure to marry. Tom Logan, who changes his hair colour monthly, is tired of outdated social expectations suggesting a man’s worth should be measured by a wedding rather than personal growth, professional milestones and being just delightfully kooky. “Everyone – by which I mean women – are always asking ‘When are you going to settle down?’ As if a man’s life is secondary. But, you know what, she probably isn’t even born yet”, before taking a Polaroid and rollerskating away.