Some women have a natural knack for this, whereas other women can come across as mentally & emotionally clueless, and they often reveal it through certain conversational habits. Mentally and emotionally clueless women often say these things casually:1. It doesn't matter how busy you are — avoid saying this casual phrase that's almost always uttered by women who are mentally & emotionally clueless. So when you throw it in his face that you don't need anyone, you essentially say that you don't need him. If you bad-talk your other dates, he will view you as a mentally & emotionally clueless woman.