Day and night, they’re everywhere. The modern bachelorette party isn’t really a party any more at all. As a kind of reality check, I asked some of my friends about their own bachelorette party memories. Judi celebrated her bachelorette at a famous New York City restaurant where friends honored her with a parade of phallic desserts. Next time I see a bachelorette party strutting down Main, I’ll still wonder how our town became ground zero for the Cowgirl Bride Industrial Complex.