And it is likely to make you look and think at control, desire, intimacy, identity – and kleptomania – in a different way. ANN OREN Several things, but what I was starting with was the sense of touch. Here, I was thinking about the sense of touch today and what happens when we touch flat screens more than we touch our lover’s skin. I think they’re really deprived, and I was imagining zombie-like, hungry fingers – hungry to touch something. He’s obsessed with controlling his body, developing his body, and then he wants his body to also get attention.