Relationships I will miss my friend Margo, who told me to grieve, but not too much "That was her big lesson for me: that after loss, I could find happiness again. I had just started the Love Letters column, not fully knowing what I had gotten myself into. Sometimes she’d tell me something about a celebrity I wasn’t even old enough to have heard of, but the way Margo told the tale was so good I was riveted. Advertisement:When my mom died, in 2013, Margo gave me a necklace that belonged to her own mother. If you want to hear Margo talking in a very Margo way about how to let go, please enjoy her appearance on the Love Letters podcast episode, “For Coffee, In Paris.”