Self-control: we have a choice when we feel anger (Adobe stock image)Our words are powerful tools. Already King Solomon wrote in Proverbs 18:21 (The Message): “Words kill, words give life; they’re either poison or fruit — you choose.” Anger is a secondary emotionLet us look at what anger actually is. Anger was meant to help us “fight to win” by releasing cortisol and adrenalin into the blood stream, hormones that give immense power. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.