It means the details that matter separate a good party from a party people talk about for months (and not in a good way).” A Mix of LightingLighting is one of the most important aspects of a party, according to Dawn Ferris, owner and lead planner at Skylar Arden Events . “I like to make two options the evening before the party, such as an infused water, a cocktail, or a mocktail. If there’s one material you should invest in for hosting, it’s linen, says Walshe. Linen has the versatility to be dressed up or down, so it’s the ideal backdrop for your hosting needs.