The Post That Stopped Being FunnyIn October 2025, Valentine shared a post on Facebook outlining what her eulogy should say. She wrote: "Hapo kwa Eulogy msisahau kuongeza Marehemu aliteswa na mapenzi saana", loosely translated as: "In the eulogy, do not forget to write that the late had a tough time with love." Nobody read the post as anything more than the kind of dark humour that circulates freely on social media. But since her death, many of those same people have returned to the post, and the mood has shifted entirely. Gertrude wrote: "Now those jokes that some of us commented while laughing will make people think badly of us, honestly.