But one woman says her marriage became a place where her husband controlled nearly every part of her daily routine. Recommended VideosYears after leaving what she describes as an abusive relationship, the woman is sharing the rules she says she was forced to follow during her 12-year marriage. TikTok creator Alana (@alanainbloomxo) says she is ready to share more about the years she spent living under her husband’s rules. She says the rules kept getting harder to followIn her video, Alana says she felt like a “slave” during the marriage and described it as “12 years in a severely abusive marriage.” One ended her marriage after three months, while another said a Disney trip helped her recognize she was in an abusive marriage.