He posted a birthday vlog for his second wife. TikToker @andiii_banxx_ shared how he worked his way through her birthday wish list, and the clip quickly took off. A young man married to two women spoiled his second wife on her birthday. Rather than throwing a big party like the couple had done for his first wife Lerato, his second wife preferred something more personal. A polygamous man delighted his two wives with luxurious gifts in a TikTok video that captured the hearts of viewers.