And with a saccharine smile, the pastor would say, “Of course there’s no opposition,” then turn to the newly approved church members and say, “Welcome. Joining a Baptist church was even easier than getting a prescription for ADHD or erectile dysfunction. Rushing to welcome folks as church members without assessing their needs and commitments will lead to potential problems not being addressed — or might actually even create problems. “Rushing to welcome folks as church members without assessing their needs and commitments will lead to potential problems not being addressed.” “Well, we’re a bit sideways with the youth minister and exploring some other options.”