AdvertisementAnd honestly, I’m not someone who spent their whole life wondering if they were different. I’m going to be really honest here: the last few years have kicked my butt. In true ADHD fashion, I went down a rabbit hole and became totally fixated on having ADHD. I am almost 40 and all I can think of now is my younger self, who tried so hard to fit in. These days, I’m challenging that inner voice, and trying to let her know that it’s not our fault that certain things are really hard.