Dear Care and Feeding,I married my husband, “Ben,” last year. Ben has two girls, “Wilma” and “Cathy,” who are 3 and 5, respectively, from his first marriage. Then came the reason: Ben wants to have a son. No one needs to weigh in on this and help you to decide if any particular thing is “reason enough.” Reason enough is I want out. If that’s what you’re thinking, I’m not surprised in the least that you’re considering ending your marriage; I’m only surprised that you haven’t left him yet.