Should I end the marriage, or attempt at some sort of reconciliation? —Normal Isn’t Good EnoughDear Normal Isn’t Good Enough,This is not a simple yes/no scenario. Your wife lied by omission and cheated, and all you have to show for it is an indictment of your particular way of having sex. Could she be satisfied with having vanilla sex with you and kinky sex with others? If she didn’t show remorse, that’s a big red flag, but either way, she may be open to negotiation.