It’s the residue of something having actually happened to the person before they sat down to explain it. Living something first doesn’t require a dramatic life, and I want to be careful not to imply that it does. Living first doesn’t mean waiting around for an event large enough to justify writing about it. What the table in Spain was actually aboutFor a while I thought that week was a story about not speaking Spanish. The internet already has more than enough people ready to explain life to you before they’ve stopped to notice what it’s actually shown them.