Finding the right partner isn't an easy task. AdvertisementSomeone isn't the right person for you if they say these things when they talk about you1. 'They're not as fun as my ex'Kindel Media | PexelsA partner who compares you to others is not the right partner to keep around. But when someone says, "I'm not sure which they'd prefer," it means they don't really know the person they're with. A good partner will laugh it off and not let it change their opinion of the person they're with.