Sign up for the Slatest to get the most insightful analysis, criticism, and advice out there, delivered to your inbox daily. Dear Prudence,My husband got wasted at the wedding of a friend, grabbed the mic from the DJ, and made a “bride-is-a-whore” joke about her. Now she and her husband are furious and refuse to speak to us. I’m so sorry his awful judgment and juvenile sense of humor took away from your beautiful wedding, and of course nobody believes what he said. It really reflects more on him than it does on you” would be a nice thing to say if it’s not too late!).