A Reddit thread asked millennial men what they'd tell their younger selves, and the answers came fast, honest, and a little weary. On work, the message was blunt: don't go above and beyond, even for a boss you actually like. Work Won't Love You BackWork your eight hours, take your breaks, and use every single day of your PTO. Social media makes every decision look permanent, but most people's twenties involve a few wrong turns before anything clicks into place. Millennials spent their twenties figuring it out too, one wrong turn at a time.