Blackburn Magistrates' Court heard the victim claimed Ahsan Choudry had put her through 11 years of torment and had left her emotionally drained. Choudry, 31, of Walsh Street, Blackburn, pleaded guilty to two charges of breaching a restraining order. "I changed my work contract so I could work from home because I was worried about seeing him on my way to work. "She had the misfortune to share an 11-year relationship with you, which she has described in very negative terms. "You need to take a long hard look at yourself and start examining the way you behave in a relationship with a woman."