Unless men themselves are healed, they will forever be lashing out and harming others, with fists or words. She’s trying to change men in one of the most sexist, patriarchal places on the planet. Will Harris be able to change that macho, hot-headed attitude which is the way of South African men? She wants men to step up and take responsibility for themselves and their families, which will help communities stabilise and families heal. Unless men themselves are healed, they will forever be lashing out and harming others, with fists or words.