I also think his teeth might hinder him professionally and personally. Would it be loving or rude to encourage him to see a dentist to explore fixing his teeth? Attraction, as you note, is important in romantic relationships — as is compromise. Having said that, let’s be honest here: I don’t believe that concern for your boyfriend’s career is what’s motivating you. — FRIENDA: When I consider issues like these, I think: How awkward is this conversation?