Would you wait until your 3-year-old was bitten in the face by a rattlesnake to finally take it away from him? Would you carelessly refuse to make a payment for 12 solid months, even though you certainly had the funds? But that is the principle behind how many people live, when it comes to dealing with the hard things in life…relationships. Still holding onto their grudge, and probably will even when one of them is long dead and cold in the grave. Too late to send flowers or a loving note that can mend your broken relationship.