Dear Care and Feeding,My wife and I are the proud parents of two really great kids, two boys, ages 5 and 7. The problem is that for the past six months, my wife keeps bringing up wanting to have one more. She just keeps dropping hints, saying things like, “Oh, don’t you just want a baby,” and, “Wouldn’t the boys love a little baby.” But I’m also dreading the day she stops dropping hints and asks a question she is not going to like the answer to. The only way you’ll know for certain if she is seriously interested in having a third baby is if you ask her.